I am in love. Not with a person, but with a song. An absolutely mindblowingly beautiful song. And it's a cover. The original is made by Troye Sivan and it's stunning, but it never really made me feel anything. I thought it was a beautiful song but I never really loved it. Then, I stumbled across a cover of it and fell. Hard. The cover is made by two Korean singers from the band BTS and honestly, their cover blew me away. They uploaded it to their Soundcloud and I was stunned. Their first language is Korean, and not English, yet the English is so flawless in the cover. They've put so much effort into the song and it's absolutely beautiful. I am just in awe of how great they are. Jungkook and Rap Monster both have incredible vocals and this is just a really really great cover. Please listen to it and tell me what you think!



Y'all know I'm a massive musiclover, and I absolutely l o v e finding new music. Recently, I've gotten more and more into kpop and I'm gonna write a blog post about that some day. I just thought I'd show you what's spinning around in my headphones these days. 9 tracks, all very very different.

(ps! click the x after the title to get to the youtube video and to hear the track!)

BTS - Run // x

I listen to this song every single day. BTS are a Korean group that I have spent about 3 weeks listening to on repeat. I'm not even kidding. I just love their music so much. They're great dancers and singers and their music videos are amazing. But more on that in another post... This song is absolutely amazing. Just check it out, even if you're not into kpop. It's so good.

Young Rising Sons - Fucked Up // x

This song is SO good. A girl I follow on twitter got me into these guys and I absolutely adore their music. This song makes me happy and it's a proper amazing pop tune. It's got some great vocals and the music is just really great. I've told literally all my friends about this song. Look it up!

EXO - Lightsaber // x

Yep, it's actually called Lightsaber. It's also Korean and fucking AMAZING. Exo are an absolutely amazing group of guys who can do no wrong in my eyes. Lightsaber is a collaboration with Star Wars (obviously) and it's such a great song. The video is only about 2 minutes, but the song is 4. If you like the video, look it up on spotify!

MAX - Wrong // x

I love Max. I've loved him since I saw his covers on youtube and I was so happy when he was signed by DCD2 Records (which is owned by Pete Wentz from Fall Out Boy). Max Schneider has such an incredible voice and I listened to his song Gibberish all summer long. Wrong is a killer track and please check it out and support this incredible guy!

The Maine - As Long As You Love Me // x

The Maine is honestly one of my all time favourite pop-punk bands. They have such amazing lyrics and they are just the best. However, this song is a cover! Yes! It's a Backstreet Boys song and the Maine has made it into their own. It's different from the original and it's got such a chilled out vibe. I love it!

G-Eazy - Me, Myself & I // x

Honestly, who doesn't love this song? It's incredible. That's all I'm gonna say. You've probably already heard it.

Panic! At The Disco - Emperor's New Clothes // x

Honestly I haven't listened to Panic! At the Disco in so many years, but then I happened to hear this song and was like... whoa. This is so good. I love Brendon's voice and this song has got some killer music in it.

Hailee Steinfeld - You're Such A // x

This is just a really good pop song. It's so catchy and I love Hailee's voice and the lyrics are fun. It's just a great song!

Troye Sivan - Fools // x

I was a bit late to the Troye hype and I do enjoy his album, but this is probably the only song I listen to on a weekly basis. A band I love has made a cover of this which was absolutely astonishing, but Troye's original will always be the best.

"They say life is a battlefield..
I say bring it on"

What I feel mostly in my life is that I've been doing this for the wrong reason. I keep worrying about other people's feeling and thoughts, and I don't really focus on mine. I've become so aware of everyone elses opinion that my own doesn't seem to matter anymore. I've lived life the way people want me to. Honestly, this is such a common thing. Society is full of adverts telling us how to dress, how to act, how to look. There's a shitload of propaganda out there telling girls how to act and look so that boys will approve of it and fall in love with them. Honestly, isn't that so dumb? We shouldn't have to feel like we dress or look the way we do for someone's approval. We should dress for ourselves. Fuck the others. I talk a good game, but I've been one of those people. Thinking that oh, if I dress this way maybe I'll seem more appealing, maybe people will like me. What good has that done? None. I've been through a lot of shit in my life, I've fought a lot of battles. Mostly with my own head. My brain has a tendency to make me feel absolutely horrendous. No one can make me feel as worthless and useless as my brain can. I'm an expert at being mean to myself. Honestly, I'm my own bully. I think most people have a tendency to be very critical of themselves. We long to fit in, long to have friends and connect with people that we are willing to do anything. I've spent so much time in my life wondering why people don't like me. Is it the way I dress? Is it my personality? Am I too fat? Too loud? Am I just... not good enough? My brain's answer to all these questions: Yes. Yes that it, that's what wrong with you. And honestly, it's all lies. There's absolutely nothing wrong with me. And not with you. And not with anyone else. We are all bloody perfect the way we are. We just need to realize that.


It's not easy coming to terms with who you are and accepting yourself. I should know. I'm still not 100% sure that I like myself. I mean, some days I do. Some days I don't. I guess that's life. But if I think back to how I was a year ago... Damn son, I've changed a lot. For the better! And I shall continue to do so. I spent the majority of last year doing things I thought was the right thing. Maybe they were, back then. I saw bands I really liked, I travelled to places I enjoy and where I have friends living. But at some point, I stopped enjoying it. Maybe something changed. Maybe I did? When I went to London in August, I had a blast. I saw some really great bands live, but it also made me feel... full. Sometimes when you see band live countless of times, and they play the same setlist every time.. It gets boring. You know what to expect. It's the same show. That's what happened. I wasn't surprised anymore, I wasn't ecstatic about their music. That trip was overall a great time, and I had so much fun with my friends. So much fun, that I decided to go back in November. But that wasn't as fun. The first day, I was so happy. I love London, I really do, and I love walking around it and just being there. But as the days went by, I started to feel a bit uneasy. I wasn't happy. I just felt like I was wasting time and money. I could've been home, at work and saving money for my trip to Thailand. Instead I was in London buying clothes I didn't need. I saw my friends, and I love them very much, but we are very different. There's about 4 of them I count as close friends, the others are basically now just acquaintances. We used to have so much in common, now there's nothing. I think you know when a friendship is starting to end, when planning to meet up is such a hassle that you start to think you don't even want to meet up at all. Sometimes you grow apart. You lead different lives and things change, it's honestly very natural. I've always been a girl with few friends, and most of them have always lived in other cities or countries. I honestly do love long distance friendships and it's great to have friends all over the world. You don't need to speak every single day, but honestly if I don't speak to someone for a month... It's not working. I think during that trip to London I realized that I wasn't there because I wanted to. I was there because it was kinda expected of me to go there. My friends wanted me to visit. So I did. But did I 100% want to? I don't know. I was excited to go there, absolutely, but it wasn't the same giddy feeling I've felt before. I missed home a lot as well, something I rarely do while there. I missed my family and my friends here. I actually even missed my job. It wasn't fun. I think that was my turning point in life. I needed to change. For the better. Again.


I'm 100% sure I have lived way too many parts of my life doing things for others. I've worried way too much about what others will think and say. Like, fuck them! This is my life and it's a short one. I have to do what I want. I've always been fairly good at dressing how I want to, but people always have an opinion about it. Since I'm not the skinniest gal around, people normally use the "aren't you too big to wear that?" and "it looks a bit vulgar". Y'all, I'm just wearing a low cut top, not walking around in my underwear. It's like, because I have curves people seem to think it's okay to have opinions about what I wear. It's not, honestly. It's like, if one of my friends who's skinny would wear a bodysuit and a pair of denim shorts people would praise that outfit and say that it looks really nice. When I wear that, people say I'm too fat and that it's vulgar. It's too sexualised. That ain't my problem though? That's society's problem. I should be able to wear whatever I want without being seen as some kind of sex-object? Like, please. Curves are seen as so vulgar and sexy and it's so wrong. Like, this is my body and it's not for your use. Stop sexualising my outfits. I wear the clothes I wear for my sake. I like them, I feel comfortable in them. I don't give a fuck if I guy likes it? Like, hell. I dress for me! The issue is with you, not me. I didn't use to think like this though, not up until the middle of last year. I was (and still is) very insecure. I have the world self-confidence and I honestly struggle to find things I am good at. I don't like complimenting myself. But I've started to try and change my way of thinking. I am so damn great at my job. I'm great at writing. I'm really funny and I have a massive heart and I care about people so much. I'm loving and kind. And on some days, I look really fucking great. I'm a bloody catch. This isn't easy to get into my head though. Some days, I feel like I'm a ten and that I can do absolutely anything. Then, some days I feel like I'm the ugliest human being ever and I hide at home watching tv shows and binge eating. No one's perfect, to be honest. Actually, there's no such thing as perfect. We are all our own types of perfect. Like, I'm perfect in my own ways.


Nothing good can ever come out of doing things for other people's approval. Do things for you. Don't do what everybody else thinks you should. Do what you want, not what they want. You go being amazing and follow YOUR dreams. Don't follow someone else's. Find your passion, and go for it. Don't let someone else tell you what's right for you, only you know that. It's taken me so many years to figure out who I am, and what I want, and it's not easy. But it's great when you do find out. I only made one new years resolution for 2016, and it sounds like a real simple one but it's actually hard. "Do things for you, not for others". Basically, like I've said I've been an expert in doing things others think I should. I've been doing stuff for their happiness, not for mine. I've been really bad at doing things that make me happy. I've been neglecting my own happiness and putting others before me. It's not a bad thing to sometimes put other people's happiness before you own, but don't do it all the time. Because sometimes, they don't actually prioritize your  happiness and that will make you feel absolutely horrible. Friendships are all about giving and taking. If you feel like all your friend does is take, and that you get 0 back... It's not a good friendship. Focus on your happiness and what you want to do. Don't put up with people walking all over you and treating you like crap. You're a star, don't let people treat you like you're dirt. That's also something I have to work on this year, because I am an expert at letting others walk all over me. I don't like confrontation, but I have to work on that. This is the year where I won't take any bullshit. This is my year.